> Do you go up to men and start random conversations? Does that sound like it might be annoying to deal with?
I start conversations with people all the time, yeah. No, it doesn't sound annoying. Funny thing about people, they LOVE to talk about themselves. Try it sometime. Er, not talking about yourself, trying to get to know a stranger. You'll learn a lot.
> approaching women who are strangers, especially in environments where they are trapped or not expecting approaches, is high stakes for both of you, and best attempted very casually if at all, with a strong awareness that any approach may be unwelcome.
a.) Asking if someone is lost is about as "casual" and "low stakes" as you can get in a damn college lecture hall/classroom building. Are you being serious?
b.) If someone feels vulnerable and not expecting "approaches" (whatever the fuck that means) in a college building containing lecture halls, prof. offices, and classrooms, perhaps the problem is with the college or the person, not the "approaches" as you call them.
> Does that sound like an experience the woman just has to deal with because the OP feels entitled to talk to every girl that makes his heart flutter?
When anyone approaches me, I could ask myself "will this man/woman kill me?" Do I let it run my life, no.
The OP is as "entitled" to talk to someone as you are to judge them for it. Your argument is really, really weak.
Also, I didn't click your link. No context was given besides the word "also."
I start conversations with people all the time, yeah. No, it doesn't sound annoying. Funny thing about people, they LOVE to talk about themselves. Try it sometime. Er, not talking about yourself, trying to get to know a stranger. You'll learn a lot.
> approaching women who are strangers, especially in environments where they are trapped or not expecting approaches, is high stakes for both of you, and best attempted very casually if at all, with a strong awareness that any approach may be unwelcome.
a.) Asking if someone is lost is about as "casual" and "low stakes" as you can get in a damn college lecture hall/classroom building. Are you being serious?
b.) If someone feels vulnerable and not expecting "approaches" (whatever the fuck that means) in a college building containing lecture halls, prof. offices, and classrooms, perhaps the problem is with the college or the person, not the "approaches" as you call them.
> Does that sound like an experience the woman just has to deal with because the OP feels entitled to talk to every girl that makes his heart flutter?
When anyone approaches me, I could ask myself "will this man/woman kill me?" Do I let it run my life, no.
The OP is as "entitled" to talk to someone as you are to judge them for it. Your argument is really, really weak.
Also, I didn't click your link. No context was given besides the word "also."
edit: a word