It seems like you're a 1099 as soon as you give a client your phone number to cut out HomeJoy. The law might not agree, but it certainly seems well within the spirit. Seems very common too (at least based on the HN comments).
I think Homejoy would be in the clear if they were more of a two-sided marketplace. If users could hire specific cleaners based on their ratings, and cleaners were free to set their own rates, that strikes me as more 1099 appropriate.