Question - are women not yet fed up of being told what to do by various talking heads yet? I thought feminism was in essence the belief (which I subscribe to wholeheartedly) that women have the same power of and right to self-determinism as men? How does this mesh with endless essays about how women ought to be living?

--edit-- (it's entirely possible that most women pay no attention I guess, I pay no attention to people telling me how I ought to live)