In the same way at a VC will often send you to an associate because they’re “too nice” to say no.
Thats one thing that bothers me in business, is the "social contract" of avoiding appearing abrasive or aloof, so everyone tells each other white lies to make everyone feel better. I'm not referring specifically to VCs (I have almost no experience with VCs). Contrast that with somebody like PG who has a reputation for being blunt, but also being constructive and generous with his time.
Accountability belongs on both sides of the table is for everyone's benefit, and Danielle is right to call attention to this.
We're also in a business world where we can't be upfront with our insecurities, worries, personal failures (unless they somehow lead to you becoming Herculean thereafter), self-doubt, etc.
No, it is not healthy, and imo it contributes significantly to the detriment of our mental health.
Thats one thing that bothers me in business, is the "social contract" of avoiding appearing abrasive or aloof, so everyone tells each other white lies to make everyone feel better.
Thats one thing that bothers me in business, is the "social contract" of avoiding appearing abrasive or aloof, so everyone tells each other white lies to make everyone feel better. I'm not referring specifically to VCs (I have almost no experience with VCs). Contrast that with somebody like PG who has a reputation for being blunt, but also being constructive and generous with his time.
Accountability belongs on both sides of the table is for everyone's benefit, and Danielle is right to call attention to this.