Sometimes I think these problems are uniquely true of the tech industry. But this is a counter-point to that.
I guess craftspeople are the same, whether your craft is code, film, or woodwork. We live for our work, but sometimes we forget to give ourselves the space to live outside of our work.
You're spot on with your comment highlighting that "we forget" to give ourselves the space to live outside of our work. It's something that anyone with true ambition is met with but something that we must learn to accept and overcome.
I feel the idea of having success in life and work is most certainly achievable, we just need to push ourselves to be aware of those around us (not just our friends on the internet). I feel we need to make a conscious effort to maintain and sustain positive relationships (partners, kids, parents, friends, etc) while still maintaining healthy work habits. Work hard, play harder.
I guess craftspeople are the same, whether your craft is code, film, or woodwork. We live for our work, but sometimes we forget to give ourselves the space to live outside of our work.