There's absolutely a need for personal attacks. By suggesting that people ought to just give in and accept this as the new reality, you are supporting it, and you need to know that this represents a severe moral flaw. You're not just being pragmatic, or realistic, or whatever polite fiction you tell yourself to avoid having to take a stand. You're being a bad person, intentionally doing your part to make the country worse in the hopes that you can be a little more comfortable. Change your ways now or you'll bear the shame the rest of your life.