Ya know, in the over half a century I've been on this planet, choosing a new pair of shoes is so low on my 'life's little annoyances' list that it doesn't even rise above the noise of all the stupid random things which actually do annoy me.
Maybe the problem is I don't take shoes seriously enough? Something to work on...
You also learned about your shoe needs over the course of a lifetime. A caregiver gave you your first pair and you were expected to toddle around at most with them. You outgrew and replaced shoes as a child, were placed into new scenarios requiring different footwear as you grew up, learning and forming opinions about what's appropriate functionally, socially, economically as you went. You learned what stores were good for your needs, what brands were reputable, what styles and fits appealed to you. It took you more than a decade at minimum to achieve that.
If you allow yourself to be a novice and a learner with AI and LLMs and don't expect to start out as a "shoe expert" where you never even think about this in your life and it's not even an annoyance, you'll find that it's the exact same journey.
Maybe the problem is I don't take shoes seriously enough? Something to work on...