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Come on, you only ever stand to lose half your resources. Also you’re interacting with the wrong kinda lady my friend.


> you only ever stand to lose half your resources

Not true. You can lose half your current assets easily, but possibly more.

Then you likely need to pay alimony for many years, which if you add it up might be.. pretty much the other half, depending on the situation, and maybe much more.

And that’s before talking about child support, which can be gamed, because they can argue for higher custody percentage in order to extract higher payments from you. It’s so common it’s basically routine.


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(Half your assets at the time of divorce plus child support and alimony) can easily be more than (all of your assets at the time of your wedding)


> Also you’re interacting with the wrong kinda lady my friend.

When you sign a contract you have to be careful to consider how fucked you can be by the other side. It's not really the fault of that particular lady, you don't know how things will turn out.


Not every state is a 50% community property split. That's not to mention the child support, which is just wild when you see how it's calculated in most places.




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