You are just rephrasing things without using terms commonly used in research. I used "surprise" because it is a) true (if not complete) and b) easy to understand for people outside of the field. The correct term you are looking for is "arousal" (not necessarily sexual). There is tons of research on the fact that arousal enhances memory formation that would otherwise need many, many repetitions. But it also inhibits memorisation of nearby events. So you either need a very particular emotional state to remember a specific thing or massive repetitions to remember many new things. There's no way to cheat the sample inefficiency of your own brain. And for LLMs we have only figured out the first one, at least without external algorithms.

[1] https://www.nature.com/articles/nrn1052

[2] https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26151918/