Then don't play those video games. Seems simple to me. Community servers are doing fine in games where that makes sense, Minecraft for example. Counter strike has community servers too and people cheat there all the time.
Except it's not a matter of community servers not being supported in games "because it doesn't make sense" - there are plenty of games where private community servers would be beneficial, but all we get is online matchmaking that gets shut down when the company decides it's done.
Pretty unfair to paint this as the users choice when the companies are taking our choices away.