> By GR there is no possible flat space-time around a dense mass no?
In standard cosmology in the super early universe there wasn't _a_ mass, like a point mass -- there was lots of mass-energy everywhere (not a point anything but a huge swath of space, and very dense), pulling on everything, yes, but at the same time stuff was flying apart with more momentum than the gravity of all the stuff because that gravity was pulling in all directions (therefore causing the gravitational potential to be huge but the net gravitational pull in any direction to be zero) but the pressure was pushing in all directions, so it all could fly apart after all.
In standard cosmology in the super early universe there wasn't _a_ mass, like a point mass -- there was lots of mass-energy everywhere (not a point anything but a huge swath of space, and very dense), pulling on everything, yes, but at the same time stuff was flying apart with more momentum than the gravity of all the stuff because that gravity was pulling in all directions (therefore causing the gravitational potential to be huge but the net gravitational pull in any direction to be zero) but the pressure was pushing in all directions, so it all could fly apart after all.