I went through the same evolution, even built a PaaS for AWS, but I kept going and now just deploy my own stuff to VMs with Swarm via one command in Rove. It's great. And yes I know kubernetes I use it at work. It's an unnecessary waste of time.
docker swarm is so simple and easy compared to the utter behemoth that is k8s, and basically is all you need for CRUD webapps 80-90% of the time. add an RDS instance and you’re set.
i will always pick swarm in a small company* whenever possible until k8s or ECS makes sense because something has changed and it’s needed.
