Some people don’t, but many people do - for example, older people don’t want to do yard work - and everyone has to choose between a number of different related things. If you want to live somewhere with culture, interesting local businesses, a healthy walkable lifestyle, etc. the suburban model isn’t economically sustainable. If you want a detached single family house and a large yard, you might trade those amenities for the house you want but it’s definitely a choice with significant costs. The fact that America’s walkable neighborhoods have such price competition suggests that there is a significant underserved market for that even if the preference isn’t universal.

As for that scenario, 1-2 hour commutes are still misery class. Doing it on a train is better, but countless studies have found that a shorter commute increases happiness more than a big house (the amenities don’t matter, you don’t have time to use them!).