I've had exactly the same thought, after hitting walls repeatedly with limitations in single-language ecosystems. And likewise, I've had the same concerns around the complexity that comes with Bazel/Buck/Nix.
It's been such a frustration for me that I started writing my own as a side project a year or two ago, based on a using a standardized filesystem structure for packages instead of a manifest or configuration language. By leaning into the filesystem heavily, you can avoid a lot of language lock-in and complexity that comes with other tools. And with fingerprint-based addressing for packages and files, it's quite fast. Incremental rebuild checks for my projects with hundreds of packages take only 200-300ms on my low-end laptop with an Intel N200 and mid-tier SSD.
One other alternative I know of that's multi-language is Pants(https://www.pantsbuild.org/), which has support for packages in several languages, and an "ad-hoc" mode which lets you build packages with a custom tool if it isn't officially supported. They've added support for quite a few new tools/languages lately, and seem to be very much an active project.
It's been such a frustration for me that I started writing my own as a side project a year or two ago, based on a using a standardized filesystem structure for packages instead of a manifest or configuration language. By leaning into the filesystem heavily, you can avoid a lot of language lock-in and complexity that comes with other tools. And with fingerprint-based addressing for packages and files, it's quite fast. Incremental rebuild checks for my projects with hundreds of packages take only 200-300ms on my low-end laptop with an Intel N200 and mid-tier SSD.
It's an early stage project and the documentation needs some work, but if you're interested: https://github.com/somesocks/dryad https://somesocks.github.io/dryad/
One other alternative I know of that's multi-language is Pants(https://www.pantsbuild.org/), which has support for packages in several languages, and an "ad-hoc" mode which lets you build packages with a custom tool if it isn't officially supported. They've added support for quite a few new tools/languages lately, and seem to be very much an active project.