Well, currently I'm in a major metro with good schools and hospitals, big houses for cheap next to modern transit, where my wife does not get regularly assaulted whenever she goes outside. The pay is several times higher in major metros with bad schools and hospitals, tiny shoebox apartments where the only ISP is the local cable monopoly, where my wife has been regularly assaulted whenever she went outside, and where I will probably get to have a favorite window glass shop again.