> Also the point about external IDs and internal IDs - why can't the database/ORM do this more automatically?
It has pretty big implications for how your application code interacts with the database. Queries that involve id's will need to perform joins in order to check the external id. Inserts or updates that need to set a foreign key need to perform an extra lookup to map the external id to the correct FK value (whether it's literally a separate query or a CTE/subquery). Those are things that are way outside the realm of what EF can handle automatically, at least as it exists today.
It has pretty big implications for how your application code interacts with the database. Queries that involve id's will need to perform joins in order to check the external id. Inserts or updates that need to set a foreign key need to perform an extra lookup to map the external id to the correct FK value (whether it's literally a separate query or a CTE/subquery). Those are things that are way outside the realm of what EF can handle automatically, at least as it exists today.