I mean if you don't really want _switches_... I use Sonoff's TX series, they are just a "touchscreen" light switch that lights up when its on. Can't get out of sync since the ring light is part of it being on or off. Don't shy away from the touchscreen aspect by the way, it's really sensitive.

If you would rather have the lights control themselves (ex: rgb lights) you can always just replace your physical switch with something similar to the TX but that's just a button and then use automations on HA to have it tell the light what to do.