You can specify parts of a query should be sent in subsequent responses with the @defer directive, and your client and server libraries will handle the rest for you.

Server side:

https://the-guild.dev/graphql/yoga-server/docs/features/defe...

https://www.apollographql.com/docs/router/executing-operatio...

Client side:

https://www.apollographql.com/docs/react/data/defer

https://relay.dev/docs/next/glossary/#defer