> How though? As author points out where hopelessly blind to our own wrong mental models & perceived reality
I think it's difficult, but mentorship comes to mind. For me, a really good tutor when I was at university helped me see the flaws in my mental models.
This is great but what about people older than university age? Why should anybody bother with me, a nobody? Do I need to offer them monetary compensation to get advice? If so, why not just buy books?
Mentorship is not typically paid for, and books can't interact with you.
Our society is so fractured and individualized. We think we have to offer money for everything. We used to have academic societies, social clubs, and many more communal spaces that are all a shell of their former self or just filled with the older generation that valued things like that. Our generations mantra is "I hate people". We live in large congested cities and don't truly know our neighbors. Problem stems from here. You are only a "nobody" (you're not btw, that's a lie) because you haven't bothered to become a somebody to someone.
I think it's difficult, but mentorship comes to mind. For me, a really good tutor when I was at university helped me see the flaws in my mental models.