Also, look at you, Jesus, being the arbiter of who's got emotional IQ - the people who follow your exercise routines? People you like? I'm not speaking to you, but to anyone reading this: Anyone like the person I'm responding to, who jumps to assign judgment of some failing on those that don't go along with their program (or implies someone who doesn't go along with the group must be flawed or weak) is a narcissist and a sick control artist, and a bully who's just learned to use fancy language to make you feel bad about your absolutely 100% natural inclination to reject and call HORSESHIT on the metaphysical group crap they're selling. You, pal, just revealed yourself as one such peddler.