> Maybe it doesn’t bother you, but I assure you a lot of people care about this
I think you are right on both points: 1) It doesn't bother me 2) a lot of people care about this.
Everyone I know has part of their brain that rapidly recoils from criticism. That could be universal.
Training your mental muscles to instead be grateful for all feedback, no matter whether it is delivered kindly or poorly, is a good skill, IMO, if you care about the truth.
I think the word you should use is "impolite". I would never call someone who speaks a public truth "unethical". Impolite? Maybe (not in this case as I found their comments quite kind). But I prefer ethical people to polite people 10 times out of 10.
I think you are right on both points: 1) It doesn't bother me 2) a lot of people care about this.
Everyone I know has part of their brain that rapidly recoils from criticism. That could be universal.
Training your mental muscles to instead be grateful for all feedback, no matter whether it is delivered kindly or poorly, is a good skill, IMO, if you care about the truth.
I think the word you should use is "impolite". I would never call someone who speaks a public truth "unethical". Impolite? Maybe (not in this case as I found their comments quite kind). But I prefer ethical people to polite people 10 times out of 10.