Like other commenter pointed out you were interviewing for what basically amounts to “tech lead” role without relevant experience. I’m not sure other L4-5s on the team would be happy if someone less experienced is hired in a TL role
Big tech interviews aren't team specific or even experience specific (with some exceptions). Teams do a wide variety of work, including stuff similar to low latency C++/Java, and team selection doesn't happen until after passing interviews.
It's not really a question of relevant experience at all - it's about passing the standardized exam that is a big tech interview. Experience comes more into play when doing team selection afterwards.