My Buddhist family relatives are constantly going to church to pray so they will go to some Buddhist heaven when they die. But the cool thing they have the Christian’s don’t have is the door stickers. They always put these really intricate stickers over all their doors. The Christian cross is really quite boring in comparison. But I would say for the family lifestyle Confucianism is much better and if you are Confucian you can go to both Buddhist and Christian church based on your mood. Of course Confucius is mysognist so the western post modernist system is superior, but if you had to pick from a religion I would pick Confucian. Though the family rituals can get boring if you do for all ancestors instead of just parents.