Yes, we ended up buying JetBrains Rider; I used it for a few years. I was much more productive in it than Ionide.

Code analysis was excellent, though it would sometimes get weird on multi-project repos. Unit testing (incl. Expecto tests) were a little flaky. Like many JetBrains products, it was a resource hog on large projects.

Probably the worst part of the Rider experience had more to do with other devs using different tools, i.e. Ionide or Visual Studio. (We were a "bring your own whatever" kind of startup.) Each IDE/toolchain had its own opinions about .fsproj files. A CI step to keep things "normal" would have been great, but there wasn't (isn't?) anything available, and we wouldn't spend the time building our own.

tl;dr - Rider better than Ionide; whole team should use it