How is Intel ME any different in functionality than the Baseboard Management Controller usually found on servers (eg: Aspeed)? And what of those whom extend these feature sets with boards like the Raspberry Pi?
Note that the BMC does not always restrict itself to the BMC port. I've worked with machines that have a dedicated BMC port, but also have a BIOS-configurable option (on by default) to let it use whatever port is connected.
That's a really low bar because (1) BMCs are a security nightmare because their firmware is garbage and (2) many PC owners do not need or want BMCs.
I think the ME hating is kinda strident but it has a bunch of undocumented firmware and your PC still works after you remove it so... what was that firmware doing?