In any language there are going to be certain possible arrangements which take an exponential number of words to reach. By simple counting arguments, some things are always incompressible. I can contort myself if I so desired to find something easily reachable in Brainfuck that would be tedious to reach in JS.
The only "way out" is for one language to force rote memorization of sophisticated abstractions as part of its vocabulary. Eg you can make a language that is superficially more capable than Brainfuck because it contains all of Brainfuck as its vocabulary + a few extra words that encapsulate everything you need to implement an extensible web server. But that's not really an improvement in expressive ease, you've just swept the difficulty of constructing those expressions into learning the language in the first place, then showed off how easy it is to express the stuff you just defined words to express.
You don't get more utility out of the marginal extra vocabulary than the work you put into defining the marginal extra vocabulary.
I think you’ve completely written off human limits to produce and maintain correct code, while being technically correct.
People swear when they have to extract a symbol from an expression because that pollutes a scope and reduces readability (see “assembly” as an extreme example of it). You can’t expect them to be cool with a ladder of queries to do simplest things. They choose languages for comfort much more than for technical yadda yadda. SQL is only comfortable in comparison to other '80s tech.
I learned SQL in the late 00s. I like SQL. It's not Stockholm Syndrome either, I don't think. SQL isn't stylish, and it isn't beautiful, but it's pretty clear in spite of that. More than that, SQL is a lingua franca for databases, and it's very powerful -- this is a pretty difficult thing to beat, and the only thing that I've seen that can do it is LINQ, which isn't a language so much as an API for constructing query ASTs.
Human language and reasoning ability also runs into the problem that certain ideas really do take a whole book to convey whereas others fit into fifty words (like this post). We just don't notice the limitation on our expressiveness for the same reason fish don't notice they live in water.
The only "way out" is for one language to force rote memorization of sophisticated abstractions as part of its vocabulary. Eg you can make a language that is superficially more capable than Brainfuck because it contains all of Brainfuck as its vocabulary + a few extra words that encapsulate everything you need to implement an extensible web server. But that's not really an improvement in expressive ease, you've just swept the difficulty of constructing those expressions into learning the language in the first place, then showed off how easy it is to express the stuff you just defined words to express.
You don't get more utility out of the marginal extra vocabulary than the work you put into defining the marginal extra vocabulary.