>i suggest that your "war" only needs to be fought because you don't have enough total free time, and it will seem like a very different war when that changes.
My war is personal, ive been over productive for 7 years like this:
Work 50+ hours as it engineer, taking on too much responsibility.
Doing opensource projects in spare time. Doing srt projects like stage shows and stuff on weekends. Being a dad to 3. Being main supplyer of moneys in the home. Having some heavy duty mental ilness diagnoses on the top.
All the while i never felt i was worth anything. Not a dime.
Now i aim for having low amount of recurring bills. Chill with my kids (i now dont live with anymore since the above details produced my divorce)
Be outside, all weather, all the time.
Be helpful. And accept a new way of not being productive. And therefore also not consuming a lot.
My war is personal, ive been over productive for 7 years like this: Work 50+ hours as it engineer, taking on too much responsibility. Doing opensource projects in spare time. Doing srt projects like stage shows and stuff on weekends. Being a dad to 3. Being main supplyer of moneys in the home. Having some heavy duty mental ilness diagnoses on the top. All the while i never felt i was worth anything. Not a dime.
Now i aim for having low amount of recurring bills. Chill with my kids (i now dont live with anymore since the above details produced my divorce) Be outside, all weather, all the time. Be helpful. And accept a new way of not being productive. And therefore also not consuming a lot.