Generally speaking, if you don't know how to solve your own immediate problem, and you have the means, it can be helpful to solve someone else's problem. A lot of people are suggesting volunteering, etc, and that's what I'm getting at too.
Specifically, when people use capital letters and an indefinite article to refer to "The Wife" it is also usually time to get a divorce.
+1 on both points. And you don't have to solve anyone else's problems for volunteering to be very helpful. Just dishing up the mashed potatoes and peas on a good soup kitchen serving line can do wonders to expand your mental and social frameworks.
Specifically, when people use capital letters and an indefinite article to refer to "The Wife" it is also usually time to get a divorce.