Yeah, I get why this happens. And to be clear, I didn't dig in to the all the PRs and compare them vs the maintainer's commits, so I have no idea of the difference in code quality between the two.
I'm sure it's frustrating when maintaining a fairly popular OSS tool to receive a PR that's 95% of the way there. Having to go back and forth to coach someone on getting that last 5% (or the contributor just dropping the PR then ghosting) vs just doing it yourself, I totally get it.
However from the contributor's point of view, when GH has support for co-authored commits, it comes of as a bit of jerky move when you take the time to submit a PR to not at least get credit via a co-author commit message.
GitHub's "support" for this is the difference between a commit credit and an author credit, which is a mechanism in git that has particular meaning with respect to cherry-picks and rebases. It should be considered awkward to attach someone else as "author" on a commit they might only sort of recognize.
Maybe instead of "taking the time to submit a PR" you should first submit an issue and only work on substantial code changes you are going to become emotionally invested in after you've negotiated the correct path forward with the maintainer? Open source used to be about communication and collaboration, not cowboy coding.
I'm sure it's frustrating when maintaining a fairly popular OSS tool to receive a PR that's 95% of the way there. Having to go back and forth to coach someone on getting that last 5% (or the contributor just dropping the PR then ghosting) vs just doing it yourself, I totally get it.
However from the contributor's point of view, when GH has support for co-authored commits, it comes of as a bit of jerky move when you take the time to submit a PR to not at least get credit via a co-author commit message.