You can disable the fsync calls in sqlite if you wanted to do a little better with this benchmark. You're also explicitly choosing the WAL in your go-sqlite3 configuration which is not at all replicated by your filesystem test. I think, honestly, that you're just going to mislead and confuse people who don't know any better with this writeup. I can write faster to /dev/null, too, but that isn't a very interesting comparison.
There's some 10-year old webpage that used to be popular on HN that goes into data integrity issues and fsync and filesystem databases that someone should dig up so you can read.
Yeah considering that the test is on btrfs, I would really be interested in knowing what OP is referring to.
Also, even if we were on ext4, it's worth pointing out that the ext4 documentation refers to apps that rely on that behavior as "broken applications", so it's hardly a good term of comparison.