I use Windows to develop at home, and Ubuntu at work. I much prefer Windows. The only advantage Linux has is the terminal environment. The GUI is crappy. The memory handling is atrocious, if it starts swapping it'll freeze for twenty minutes before the OOM killer finally kicks in. Multiple monitor use is a crap shoot, I'll always get one black screen after resuming from suspend. Windows is miles more stable. And this on a Dell XPS 15 which is supposed to have great Linux support.
There are two major and many smaller desktop environments for Linux. KDE is more like Windows, you could try that. (sudo apt install tasksel; sudo tasksel install kubuntu-full to get a KUbuntu equivalent, or just sudo apt install kde-full for the main things. Though you may well have a colleague already using KDE.)
Unless you need it for the type of work you do, you could disable swap, or reduce it to a small amount.
(I don't have a laptop, so I can't comment on suspend.)
