Even as anecdata, I see a few issues with this comparison. For one, part of your mortgage payment is simply a repayment of loan principal, which is not a cost of living. Only the interest portion might be considered a legitimate household expense.
Second, with a $10K deductible, it sounds like you have a HDHP (high deductible health plan), of which the main feature is lower premiums, and also the ability to fund an HSA (health savings account) for additional tax savings.
Even with your deductible, a wide variety of basic and preventive health services are available for free to you under ACA's minimum essential coverage provision.
For example, see this list [0] for all adults, along with a similar ones specifically for women and children.
Second, with a $10K deductible, it sounds like you have a HDHP (high deductible health plan), of which the main feature is lower premiums, and also the ability to fund an HSA (health savings account) for additional tax savings.
Even with your deductible, a wide variety of basic and preventive health services are available for free to you under ACA's minimum essential coverage provision. For example, see this list [0] for all adults, along with a similar ones specifically for women and children.
[0] https://www.healthcare.gov/preventive-care-adults/