It is ironic that you can use your money electronically without a middle man with cryptocurrency, but people choose to leave it with a middle man regardless.
Not ironic, because nobody that has serious money in BTC cares about using it as a currency. It's a get-rich-quick scheme for regular people, and a way to launder money for everybody else. In both cases, you need a middleman.
Plenty of people with “serious money” use their cryptocurrency - be it as a currency or for whatever other purpose it was designed. In fact, they probably use it more than the average person since many of them made it from being a crypto developer.
In any case, there’s a big difference between “needing a middleman” to do something and leaving your funds with a middleman indefinitely. That’s like needing to use a taxi and paying with cash versus leaving your life savings with the taxi person so some day when you maybe want to use a taxi it’ll be easier.
The point is that you don't need a bank/exchange/middleman with bitcoin. You just need the wallet key and password. Bitcoin can be stored on a post-it note.