I still need to adjust to the new world order where bringing up unusual perspectives intentionally is viewed as striking flamewars. I totally admit to having spet over a line by using swear words, and I apologize for that. As you have noticed, it is a tough time for anyone, however, that really shouldn't serve as an excuse. The truth is, that it is pretty hard to get your point across with english not being my first language, and that makes me frustrated when trying to make a point. In any case, thanks for the heads up, this thread has been enlightening enough that I will actually quit HN.
One of the things I really like about this site is that personal attacks on others are a strict taboo.
It seems increasingly common on the Internet to believe that personal attacks are okay, in some cases even virtuous. To each their own I guess, but personally I greatly prefer HN's model.
If you choose to stay, I think that you will find that bringing up unusual perspectives is highly welcome here, as is disputing other people's points. But, for me at least, an accusation that any other poster lacks empathy will always be met with a downvote.