Assuming you remove all "wasteful" travel, you're still causing more pollution living away from a major hub. Instead of a non-stop SFO to JFK flight, now you're taking a 1 hr Uber (or driving yourself) to a local airport, then taking a connecting flight to SFO.
The "space" dimension is so overrated when it comes to meetings.
If that is the only thing that has been keeping cities together then they're doomed.