"Even in a more ordinary circumstance, male bosses can wield power in a way that would label their female cohorts 'ice queens'."

I suspect that those male bosses are equally called names and disliked. They just don't give a damn.

I wonder if women bosses just have a bigger aversion to being strongly disliked?

(Rhetorical question here. I really don't know. I've had several different male and female bosses at this point, but haven't really experienced behavior from either that would make me want to call them bad names.)