Note that there is also a mechanism for association between two presynaptic neurons. Probabilistically, when those upstream neurons fire synchronously, the downstream neuron will be more likely to actually fire. When that occurs, the postsynaptic neuron will, as a result of Hebb's Postulate, increase the connectivity to the synchronously firing neurons. So, "cells that fire together wire together" is more true of presynaptic neurons than pre-to-post synaptic neurons (and the wiring together is occurring through the postsynaptic neuron)