I can't begin to imagine how what I said relates to what your experience was (which I am sorry to hear about).
Just because people share some things in common obviously does not make them the same or make a point of view incorrect.
It's like saying 'well my Dad was a hunter as well and he was a lousy father so therefore being a hunter is bad' (Not sure the name of this but I am sure someone will fill in the blanks for the concept).
I can't begin to imagine how what I said relates to what your experience was (which I am sorry to hear about).
Just because people share some things in common obviously does not make them the same or make a point of view incorrect.
It's like saying 'well my Dad was a hunter as well and he was a lousy father so therefore being a hunter is bad' (Not sure the name of this but I am sure someone will fill in the blanks for the concept).