There are no lack of programming languages named after males, but as they tend to use the last names (Pascal, Haskell, Occam, Curry, Darwin, Dylan, Orwell, etc) while those named after females tend to use first names this might not be obvious.
They exist, I'm not sure how the ratios stack up. I suspect both are outnumbered by acronyms. Some projects get named after their partners or children.
Why should I be forced to name my own product in some way? I think I should be free to name it any way I want and I shouldn't be punished for the irrelevant society's fault to produce enough male-named programming languages.
