Can you point to that statement cause that seems contrary to establishing a civilized debate?
You downvote if something as an example is of topic or inflamatory or otherwise destroyes the conversation, not something you disagree with which is part of the discussion.
Never heard it was ok to downvote just because you disagree but would love to see the statement about that.
It's certainly something the community is split about, but I'm not sure it could be fixed even if it were forbidden, seems almost impossible to police.