> Rejecting someone directly is socially awkward and potentially dangerous.
Very much this. People who've been rejected (male or female) can definitely be vindictive, nasty, and just plain evil. :(
I'm guessing it comes from their feelings of hurt inside from the rejection given. Which (personally) indicates how badly I sucked with interpersonal skills when rejecting people in my younger years. eg I'm pretty direct with people, but had literally no tact when younger. Bad combo. Ugh.
Very much this. People who've been rejected (male or female) can definitely be vindictive, nasty, and just plain evil. :(
I'm guessing it comes from their feelings of hurt inside from the rejection given. Which (personally) indicates how badly I sucked with interpersonal skills when rejecting people in my younger years. eg I'm pretty direct with people, but had literally no tact when younger. Bad combo. Ugh.