I can't find anything other than that he awkwardly asked her out (after dating a number of Microsoft employees). Most of the recent stories read like sanitized rewrites of history.
But I did find this somewhat interesting 1995 history of the lengths they went to in order to protect their privacy:
He cornered her in the parking lot after watching her for several weeks and asked for her number. She said no, mentioning something about him not being spontaneous enough. She didn't give him her number.
An hour later he called her at home, having obtained her number through her personnel information, saying, "Is this spontaneous enough for you?"
This is the wealthy CEO talking to a junior new hire.
I can only imagine the mob if someone like Travis Kalanick did that.
According to the standard some posters here are advocating, that makes Bill an evil sociopathic predator that should have been shamed or even locked up for harassment.
Clearly, these simple Dos and Donts are not so simple. It turns out that he made the correct move, they fell in love, and are married to this day.
Had I been his wing man and he bounced that plan off of me, I'd have talked him out of it and said he was crazy. It makes you wonder if he was extremely socially retarded or extremely socially advanced. He took a risk and it worked out perfectly for both of them.
Yet we want to crucify the guy who joked about wanting to hit on someone in an interview. I don't think that was appropriate but I'd be lying if I said I could find where we are drawing the line between what Dave tried and what Bill tried.
But I did find this somewhat interesting 1995 history of the lengths they went to in order to protect their privacy:
http://community.seattletimes.nwsource.com/archive/?date=199...