I'm not a Trump supporter, but it has been really frustrating to watch the Buzzfeed crowd paint all Trump supporters as misogynist racists. My facebook feed has been loaded with articles about how white men failed the feminist movement and all sorts of other crap that misses the point. I thinks Trumps popularity is best explained by saying that people are sick and tired of politics as usual. It's really not because half the country hates minorities.
I can see how people might think of Trump supporters as misogynist racists. Some people have argued that it is taking things out of context, but every time I look the context is worst than I imagined.
He denies rape by saying the accuser is too ugly to rape. (Would he rape if she were cute?)
He seems to think that "grabbing women by the pussy" is a good thing. Most politicians I'd give a pass on an event like this - it happened a long time ago, and most politicians would disclaim such behavior (compare Clinton's response to her email server during the debates).
He accuses a judge of not being able to do his job because he is "from Mexico", even though said judge was born as an American.
He attacks (seemingly) muslims at Hillary's DNC speech - for reasons I'm not entirely certain why.
So I think that there are a few options: you are either saying Trumps sexism and racism is worth it for his other qualities, or blatantly ignoring it, or actively supporting it. To me it's not hard to see how people would come to the conclusion that people are actively supporting it, because for a lot of people that is an issue that would trump other issues (bad pun not intended but now that it's there I'm leaving it).
>I refuse to believe that close to half of this country hates people of color
It's been confirmed that many pro Obama counties have turned pro Trump this election cycle. Clearly not racists.