I grew up in a similar way. My departure point was somewhere between okc and kid a. I can't stand most their music now. A still like the first 5 EPs but even Pablo honey is a hard listen at times. Funny, really.
Same here, I started listening to them after The Bends was released. Nowadays I can still appreciate The Bends and Hail to the Thief. The rest is just too much... Wailing I guess. They are still a good band, but I guess that I have outgrown them.