On HN, please don't use quotation marks to make it look like you're quoting someone when you aren't. It's an internet trope that doesn't contribute to thoughtful conversation, which is what we're trying for here.
This is a weird comment, and not surprising to see the downvotes - hope your day gets better!
One important thing that’s being missed here, though, is the role of parents - getting an ASD diagnosis is extremely useful for parents in terms of understanding/excusing their personal struggles in being a parent.
