Similarly, one should never state that something is "obvious".

I catch myself sometimes starting a sentence with "Obviously," and usually stop myself at that point and restart.

True, there is no such thing as a concept been obvious to everybody.

Feyman has this great bit in his biography where he tackles mathematicians that keep saying in their demonstration that a step is trivial.

Clearly, there are other words which sound condescending.

Reading text (documentation, for example) is more enjoyable when it inspires one's curiosity instead of belittling them on things which are simple, easy, obvious, clear, etc. Although humor helps, makes it stick.

> Clearly, there are other words which sound condescending.

Well played. You start with a synonym for obviously, but pointing that out just proves your point.

Maybe there are some sentences that can justifiably start with obviously, clearly, etc after all

At first I agreed with you in that my spouse had a negative response to me referring to a particular person, method, place or thing as “famous” when she was not aware of the person. I’ve learned to omit it or say “well known in some circles” or the like.

On the other hand, maybe these phrases like “simply” or “obviously”are less-than-consciously used on the part of the speaker/writer to acknowledge that this reference may already be known to the listener/reader. In that it reminds me of various England-Englishisms that mean the opposite of their plain definitions.

> Similarly, one should never state that something is "obvious".

Agreed.

Logically speaking, if something is obvious, why are you wasting time stating it?

Either you've wasted everyone's time or it wasn't obvious.

I often reply back quietly or in my head "obviously" with a bit of a laugh when I hear it used. It usually sounds absurd and unnecessary and takes me out of what was being said.

"Obviously" will always remind me of math classes in university. Sometimes the professor would use it as a joke, sometimes they used it normally while still stumping everyone else.

"Simply" when used in the sense of "without addition, alone" is perfectly fine. I find the issue people have is not really with the word simply but with bad documentation and badly designed tools. That’s not going to be fixed by avoiding one word.

“Simple” vs “easy”: https://youtu.be/LKtk3HCgTa8

Ok, so at least I‘m not the only one using simply that way

I remember reading one of those and it made a huge impression on me. I've followed it ever since and taught others to do the same. As far as I can tell, it has only been met with appreciation.

That said, sometimes I find myself trying to write around "simple" when I really mean "less complex", and I have to remind myself that what I really want to avoid is implying "easy", not "relatively less complex".

Indeed. I tend to force myself to write the following:

- It will be easy => I will guide you through it

- This will make your life easy => It will make your life easier / It will help you

- To do X, simply do Y => The most common way to get to X is first to do Y

You can use comparatives, like "simpler", usually without issues. Something can be simpler than something else without necessarily being simple. Superlatives like "simplest" can sometimes be used as well. After all, being the simplest thing means to be simpler than all the other things; still not necessarily simple.

It's only the positive form "simple" which is problematic and should be almost always avoided.

This is indeed where I usually go. "Under condition X, it is simpler to Y" rather than "Under condition X, you can simply Y."

it's not only the word `simply`; I find myself perusing more and more docs that boil down to an emoji-laden slab of super-shallow tutorials and marketing lingo, which just tell you how to do the most basic thing - or the barely less basic thing in the most ideal scenario - and nothing more.

I'm all ok with tutorials and examples into the docs, but give some depth to them, not only breadth (or emojis).

> This should be automatized by writing tools.

iA Writer¹ does it. It strikes out and greys out the words “simply” and “just” as part of its style check for fillers.

¹ https://ia.net/writer

The intro video for that app is one of the best I’ve seen in explaining quickly the value proposition of the software.

Many websites for software use so many buzzwords or marketing language as to not effectively communicate the value of the software.

In the case of documentation provided by the creators of the software, there's a more substantial vexation: Use of such words comes off as vacuous, self-praising bullshit.

Monty Python’s sketch “How to Do It” has some decades.