I'm saying discrimination, meaning non-equal results, is fine. I don't think there should be any active discrimination, and incorrect unintentional discrimination should also be removed.
I'm saying discrimination, meaning non-equal results
I think you may want to reconsider the word you use for that, because that isn't a widely shared definition.
To be clear, when you say "discrimination.. [snip] is fine" most people hear that as "making hiring or promotion decisions based sorely or primarily on the gender of the person is fine". That's what the dictionary definition is too.
This isn't discrimination, and (almost) no one says it is. Unequal outcomes have many sources, and provided they are non-discriminatory that's defensible.
The issues arise when unequal outcomes occur and no one can agree on the cause, because there is a (very good) chance that there is an inequality of opportunity somewhere in the process.
I suspect there is a miscommunication here and your defense of the possibility of unequal outcomes is being confused by the wording.
I think the other person with which you are speaking is communicating clearly enough without your help on what the definition of words are supposed to mean.
I think you mean "no" here, right? Because discrimination means making decisions based on gender, not on individual characteristics.
Also your other comments seem to means you support Google's pro-diversity approach then, right?
They aim to give equal opportunities to a more diverse set of people. They don't force hiring from under-represented classes.